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i feel you bro, feelings are something that you cant ignore but feelings do go away. I'm not saying dont be her friend but you have to tell yourself that you are just that a friend and that's all there can be until situations changes with her or even you.
Do more things with your other friends or your car when you get it back, but definitely dont dedicate all your time w/ her.
In a way she's kind of using you (not in a malicious way) as a surrogate bf while her real bf is gone. But you dont get the other benefits of being the real bf. All you get is inner torment and saddness.
Do your thang and all other things will fall into place
Flush - I just read your post. That's ok in any other circumstances but this. She has a BF and that in my personal moral and ethics is off limits. If she were single and you guys were buds then heck ya lay it down on the line...this is different. There are others involved in this and can be quite a completed thing.
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