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Originally Posted by DLJJ3399
I know you want to try and help her but I'll give this advice to you.
You are better off without her.
She's attracked to the criminal type and that won't change.
Thank her for the help she gave you and move on no matter how much it hurts.
Although she stayed by your side, people grow and move on. It looks as if she needs to do some serious growing on her own.
Giving money won't help, it's a personal thing that she has to want and do alone.
If she does, then you can be friends again. Until then steer clear.
When you really think about it. No one does anything to us. We do it to ourselves.
Put ourselves in certain questionable situations that is... And then we want to blame someone else for our troubles.
Don't put yourself back in harms way. Hope this helps and read this article about red flags in dating in the link below. Good luck. 
http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static...red-flag-tango |
You've said everything a wise man would say...but everything you said I've passed through the back of my head for the
last year and a half. At times it makes sense, and sometimes it doesn't. My
life is a hella lot better than before (cus of the BMW). I worked hard and
came up and made a few people ask if Im the same person I was a year ago.
I seriously thought this would make me happy, but I would trade all of it back
in a split second even my e90 just to be with her again...no BS! Ill keep
trying cus I know I love her and vice versa. And If Im gonna blow 3000-4000
bucks on wheels, Id rather help her out before this assmunch boyfriend of
hers' ruins her. I know I cant help her if she doesn't want to help herself or
change for the better. But like any real love, you never give up on someone
you love...never