Hey lux.sh, ever read the Bible? One of the most important things it explicitly says is
NEVER LEND MONEY 
Seriously, though...lending money to anyone isn't a hot idea. If my "friends" hit me up for cash, I'd tell them to get bent (but in a nice way). If my girl (who is purely imaginative right now) needed money, you know I'd definitely help her--but without getting carried away.
Good thing for me I have no girl or friends, so I spend all my time on the forum which is free (except the internet bill every month, but I can deal with that!)