[spacegraye70]

hi folks, a few scenarios here. in order to avoid trouble, you must stay stoic but it may be hard.

1: you get pulled over, cop speaks to you very rudely, implying racist remarks. calls you names.
2: gf breaks up with you. calls you names. tells you she cheated on you many times.
3: you meet an aggressive driver. driver flips you off. tailgates you. intimidate you with his 3 ton truck.

all 3 scenarios you must stay stoic. if you tell the cop off, he would make up charges and arrest you. if you lose control with the cheating gf, she can make up lies saying you hit her. Or, if you go head to head with the truck driver in your car, you can't win.

so guys, how do you control your anger and just let it go? if you swallow all the anger, some people think it's not healthy because eventually you can snap. but if you just let your anger out without any control, it's just as bad.

what would you do?