[Comet]

-get number
-call her
-ask her out
-PIITB
-????
-Profit

worst she can say is no..

[Seminole]

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

He always has small parties so Ill see if hell throw one and bring her over. does that seem good? Shes not 21 so it may be tough for bars. Itll also be more natural and easy going

theres also some huge festival thing going on next saturday, and Im pretty sure shell be there but I dunno if thats too long from now.

Boom. That explains it. She's just acting all cutesy and immature by always walking away at the party. TBH, it sounds like she's just playing games and isn't serious about this whole situation at all.

[jpsum]

hit and run

[panicos81]

experience tells me that whatever your approach is if she is interested she will give you the first chance, so either find her on facebook and ask her out, or get her phone from your friend and call her (i prefer this). either way will work if she likes you.

[Quick6EF]

Stop overthinking it.

Have a small day party. Ignore her. Get drunk and stop being a pussy.

Shes young as shit anyway

[boymonkey]

She probably didn't want her family to see. Take her out alone.

[chungdae]

Truthfully, sounds like you need to work on your inner game before you talk to her. You shouldn't be shy talking to a girl; you should be projecting confidence and status the moment you walked into the party. Work on yourself (confidence, status, class, appearance) first before you make yourself look like a fool.

[Kiemyster]

Originally Posted by AngelinIsRich08

Hey, how much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice.

i laughed so hard when i read this my joint fell out my mouth and nearly burned my pants. well played sir, well played. i just watched that shit on jetblue on monday lololol hall pass is full of win.

Originally Posted by express705

man i wish i had the balls to make a relationship advice thread. on this forum.

If you ever feel the need, PM me the thread first so I can get first laughs please

Originally Posted by express705

forever alone

You got that maryjane always buddy boy. we will never be alone

Originally Posted by chungdae

Truthfully, sounds like you need to work on your inner game before you talk to her. You shouldn't be shy talking to a girl; you should be projecting confidence and status the moment you walked into the party. Work on yourself (confidence, status, class, appearance) first before you make yourself look like a fool.

This is the best, most real answer out here. I fully +1 this. You gotta find yourself before you can conquer the puss. Ive just recently found myself again lol -- long story short, im getting rid of the wife. bitch's time is up. Shes got no respect for my passion of cars and she's crossed the line. bitches be wilding, be ready to replace them as they come, even if its wife status. never let them hold you down.

Forward EVER backwards NEVER, rastafari!

[silvergray545]

Originally Posted by E90SoFlo

OP add her on Facebook and get her number, then take her to dinner and live happily ever after

I was thinking the same thing. But only Facebook her if you guys had a decent conversation and kinda got to know each other. If it was just "Hi, my name is.... Nice to meet you." I wouldn't Facebook her. Seems a little on the creeper side. Same thing goes for getting her number and just calling her.

Have your friend throw another party and invite her. Go up and talk to her. Crack a little joke about how you tried to find her last time but she was always busy doing something. Boom, conversation started.

The key is, don't be shy or nervous. She'll sense it. Approach her with confidence. Girls love guys that are confident.

[chinoxs203]

everyone knows the next step is to poke her on facebook. newbs

[Kiemyster]

Originally Posted by chinoxs203

everyone knows the next step is to poke her on facebook. newbs

[yakev724]

Sometimes I get tripped up in strange circumstances, esp. when friends/family are around in large groups. Reminds me more of high school...

Just don't think about it too much and try and start fresh when you take her out. Good luck and we deserve a pic if it goes well.

[TiAg335i]

you both sound very very shy - understandable. IMO if you both had some drinks in you the potential interaction would have gone a bit easier and would have seemed more natural. i've been through situations like this before and to put it bluntly - you need to grow and pair and act like your the best thing since sliced bread - girls WANT confidence.

nevertheless, she likes you. she's just very shy, like i mentioned. girls who run the other way when you approach or avoid eye contact are timid and are afraid to be confronted by someone who gives them butterflies, i.e., you. again, i've been through this kind of thing MANY, MANY times. (some) girls hate to make eye contact with certain guys because they lack self esteem and don't think they are worthy. it's kind of like she's afraid of making a good impression, so she avoids the situation all together - it just shows she is inexperienced with these kinds of things which isn't necessarily a bad thing, it just makes it a little more difficult for you, obviously.

simple answer to your situation: get her number from your friend and send her a friendly text. you don't have to ask her out right away but just talk with her a bit and see where things go. maybe even have your friend set up another day where you can all hang out so it's less awkward for you.

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by Seminole

Boom. That explains it. She's just acting all cutesy and immature by always walking away at the party. TBH, it sounds like she's just playing games and isn't serious about this whole situation at all.

Originally Posted by Quick6EF

Shes young as shit anyway

She just turned 20, and Im turning 22 in september, so were both around the same age

Originally Posted by chungdae

Truthfully, sounds like you need to work on your inner game before you talk to her. You shouldn't be shy talking to a girl; you should be projecting confidence and status the moment you walked into the party. Work on yourself (confidence, status, class, appearance) first before you make yourself look like a fool.

Originally Posted by silvergray545

I was thinking the same thing. But only Facebook her if you guys had a decent conversation and kinda got to know each other. If it was just "Hi, my name is.... Nice to meet you." I wouldn't Facebook her. Seems a little on the creeper side. Same thing goes for getting her number and just calling her.

Have your friend throw another party and invite her. Go up and talk to her. Crack a little joke about how you tried to find her last time but she was always busy doing something. Boom, conversation started.

The key is, don't be shy or nervous. She'll sense it. Approach her with confidence. Girls love guys that are confident.

Thanks for the input, there are things I need to work on. Im the kind of guy that will walk in to a party and just chill back, rather than start hitting on all the girls or whatever. Thats why my friend had to come look for me and drag me out there lol. I try not to over think things but since this was my first experience with being set up, I didnt know what to expect, especially with his entire family around. Im more comfortable in some scenarios than others

Im sure the next time will go better

and Im not hitting her up on Facebook at this point

[TiAg335i]

to get over the shy thing - just remember that nobody has more value than you and have confidence in WHO you are as a person. don't put pussy on the pedestal.

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by yakev724

Sometimes I get tripped up in strange circumstances, esp. when friends/family are around in large groups. Reminds me more of high school...

Just don't think about it too much and try and start fresh when you take her out. Good luck and we deserve a pic if it goes well.

Yea. I was ok throughout the party but then afterward my mind went nuts like "wtf was that shit"

Originally Posted by TiAg335i

you both sound very very shy - understandable. IMO if you both had some drinks in you the potential interaction would have gone a bit easier and would have seemed more natural. i've been through situations like this before and to put it bluntly - you need to grow and pair and act like your the best thing since sliced bread - girls WANT confidence.

nevertheless, she likes you. she's just very shy, like i mentioned. girls who run the other way when you approach or avoid eye contact are timid and are afraid to be confronted by someone who gives them butterflies, i.e., you. again, i've been through this kind of thing MANY, MANY times. (some) girls hate to make eye contact with certain guys because they lack self esteem and don't think they are worthy. it's kind of like she's afraid of making a good impression, so she avoids the situation all together - it just shows she is inexperienced with these kinds of things which isn't necessarily a bad thing, it just makes it a little more difficult for you, obviously.

simple answer to your situation: get her number from your friend and send her a friendly text. you don't have to ask her out right away but just talk with her a bit and see where things go. maybe even have your friend set up another day where you can all hang out so it's less awkward for you.

Thanks for the advice! When my friend brought her over to introduce her to me and my friends she kept most of her eye contact on me. Like when she went into the house and said shed be back, I took that as the OK to talk to her more

[Grail05]

Originally Posted by chinoxs203

everyone knows the next step is to poke her on facebook. newbs

agreed poke that bitch on facebook... shes young so dont be too serious..... id hit and run... or something everyone calls it... friends with Benefits.

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by TiAg335i

to get over the shy thing - just remember that nobody has more value than you and have confidence in WHO you are as a person. don't put pussy on the pedestal.

Ill admit that my confidence may not be maxed out but its there for sure. and about putting pussy on the pedestal, I wont be a victim to that...I learned that hard way the last time I was in some kind of relationship lol. you live, you learn

[JayKay335i]

Just JO on her when shes sleeping and call it a day.

[Litos]

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

anyway, Im wondering...what should I do?

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

From what he told me, she is not a shy person at all. she seemed extremely outgoing.

absolutely nothing.

since then, she's probably fucked 3 or 4 dudes based on the fact that you blue balled her........

move on, kid.......

[Kiemyster]

Originally Posted by Litos

absolutely nothing.

since then, she's probably fucked 3 or 4 dudes based on the fact that you blue balled her........

move on, kid.......

+1 gotta keep it real.

[CollinsE90]

Painfully obvious who can actually get a woman ITT